We have had time to settle down and think about our treatment options after our visit to George Washington Medical Center. Last week, we had our follow up talk with Deb’s Oncologist, Dr. Brodeur about Dr. Alghren’s consultation letter. Our primary discussion was focused around when to move forward with the next treatment option which we think at this point is most likely chemoembolization. After going back and forth, Dr. Brodeur basically felt it was pre-mature to move forward with this treatment because 1) Deb’s current body strength level was not yet ready, 2) risk from side effects of the treatment, and 3) the treatment was only addressing the liver and not the rest of the body.
I was told by Dr. Brodeur to not think like a surgeon and that you have to look at the global perspective of what is going on in Deb’s body. He said it is common for people to want to feel like you are doing something by moving forward with some sort of treatment to eradicate the medical condition. His overall justification that the chemoembolization is not an option at this time is based on the fact that the treatment will only shrink approximately 30-60% of the liver tumor. At this point, you still have a significant tumor that you are left with in your body and now along with additional poison as a result of the chemo treatment.
At this point, Dr. Brodeur is recommending for Deb to maintain on her daily injections of the Sandostatin treatment and go to a monthly injection this Wednesday. He continued to state that he has patients that are on this medication for years and are also back to work.
Well, what I live by in life is TBV. Trust by verify. With full respect of Dr. Brodeur, we are still going to pursue 3rd and 4th opinions from both Emory and MD Anderson on treatment options. We need to understand more from other specialists that it is okay to take “a wait and see approach” or should be moving forward with a more aggressive treatment.
With all that said, I can tell you that Deb has done amazingly well on the Sandostatin treatment in the last week and a half. We have seen Deb go from daily pain medicine to no request for pain medicine for abdominal pains. Her alertness is nearly back to normal. The medicine is quite fascinating and I have learned from additional reading that it is used in patients who have tumor metastases in several areas of the body. Where the medicine is not aggressively shrinking Deb’s tumors, it is returning her back to a normal quality of life with significantly less abdominal pain. Deb is now getting to enjoy all the wonderful dishes being delivered by her school and our neighborhood. Her weight is slowly returning and we are beginning to get back to our walks to return her muscle mass that she lost in her legs and arms. You all will be so proud of how strong she has been for all she has been thru. What an amazing woman I am married to be hit with this bombshell in the last month and begin walking again in the neighborhood in short spurts this weekend. Deb strives to be able to help herself and reduce her dependencies on others including being excited this weekend to be able to give self injections of Sandostatin. Her Oncologist was also very excited to hear of how well she was doing and indicated that her body is accepting the medicine quite well. I agree but also have to say that the medicine combined with all the love from friends, neighbors, and family has made all the difference.
Where do we go from here?
For now, we are comfortable that the Sandostatin is buying us time in the short term to take a breather and let Deb get back to her near normal self so we can explore in more details the other treatment options.
Emory
Through good friend Jim H. in our neighborhood, we have been blessed to talk and setup a meeting with Director of Interventional Radiology,
Dr. Kevin Kim. What small world. Our friend Lisa in DC already spoke highly of him and studied under him. We are tentatively scheduled for general treatment consultation a week from this Monday at Emory. Focus will be on treatment discussions/comparisons between Chemoembolization and a new similar treatment option at Emory called
SIR-Spheres microspheres.
MD Anderson
Through our friends for life, the Swansons, Erik’s brother Stephen made some phone calls/emails to get us up the food chain to setup treatment consultation with Dr. Steven Sherman, Chair of Endocrine Neoplasia and HD. I am in process of setting this consultation up this week and not sure if that will be a trip to Texas or a conference call.
I am totally overwhelmed and realize that Deb’s network is growing beyond anything I could ever imagine. I am simply in awe and so grateful every day for how much you all are doing to reach out to help our Deb.
Deb had a great weekend with her entire family at our house. We celebrated birthdays for sister Susan, cousin Reed, and Tommy. I can tell you from observation, love from family and friends is wonderful medicine to Deb’s body. I saw so much joy and smiles in her this weekend that I have not seen in the last month.
We love you Mom and Dad. Please know that we are sending much love and support healing that we have bundled up to you Mom in preparation for your back surgery this month.
So who is John Coffey?
Watched the
Green Mile movie this weekend and I forgot how powerful John Coffey’s character was in the movie including removing the terminal illness from one woman. I wish it were that easy but know that we will never stop looking for the John Coffey "take it back" treatment out there in this wonderful world we live in.
Love to all and KTS!
Rod and Deb
How sweet it is to be loved by you.James Taylor